The Things You Need to Know to Reach Orgasms

For Men:

• Tell her that she's marvellous, sexy and beautiful.
• Remember that most women need stimulation of the clitoris. Touching/kissing/stroking will help reach orgasm.
• Give her oral sex. Most women adore this and some claim that they cannot come unless a man 'goes down' on them.
• Caress her breasts or her sensitive spots. A few women climax through breast fondling alone or simply by stroking their sensitive spots.
• Don't be too proud to ask her to show you what she wants.
• If you come before her, don't stop there but try to help her climax too by kissing and stimulating her.
• Remember to provide an atmosphere of love, romance, security and compassion.

For Women

A woman who experiences no or few orgasms can learn to bring herself to climax, over time with little patience and self-stimulation. Patience is needed because it will take time to learn the spots, the touches, feelings and thoughts that will arouse you and continue to arouse you to the point of climax. At first the techniques can be practiced alone, but then with your partner since he too has to be taught how to make love to you.

• When alone explore your body - touch and stoke yourself in the way you would like to be caressed by your lover - learn and enjoy those things that really stimulate you.
• Once you know what stimulates you and helps you reach climax share these experiences with your partner; guide him around those parts of your body that aroused you when you stimulated them - let him find other ways to arouse you too.
• Let your partner stimulate your clitoris during foreplay, when you find yourself on the brink of orgasm after your partner has touched and caressed your clitoris, move straight on to intercourse, with you or your partner continuing to stimulate your clitoris.

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